(This is
written for those St. Lambertonians who may never have known Bob)
It was
evident from the day I started grade one at Herbert Symonds in NDG that I was
not a student. On my first day of school when the recess bell rang, I went
home. Nobody told me this was an all day ordeal. I followed my sister Rosalyn
(Roz) through school, she was the teachers pet, I was their worst fear.
In today’s
world I would be diagnosed as having some 4 letter disorder, perhaps 2 or 3
disorders.
It was the
summer of ’57 when we arrived in St. Lambert, that is me with my grandmother
Jeanne Piche-Taylor on the steps of the rectory at Woodland United Church in
Verdun. Note the jeans and wellington boots,that is how I appeared on day one
in grade 7 at St. Lambert Elementary. The local yocals labeled me Rocky and
rather than be intimidated by them I relished in my new moniker.
From the
outset Mr. Brigdon and I had an intimate relationship, I would drop by his
office on occasion, he would give me the strap and everyone would be happy.
I have
always known that I am different, dance to my own music so to speak but it is
only in the last few days that I am reminded of how I stood out as a student.
When Miss Sheppard had me move my desk to the back wall by the door, I thought
I was the door monitor, I didn’t realize she wanted me as far away from the
rest of the class as possible.
One day our
English assignment was to write a “descriptive composition”. Really? I thought. Miss Sheppard came to the back of
the room and I said “I don’t know what to write about’ and she replied “just
write about something you know”. That night I sat at home thinking “what do I
know”? Then it hit me, I sat down and scribbled the one thing I knew best “How
to Play Hooky”.
Miss
Sheppard loved it, showed it to Mr. Brigdon and he had me read it at assembly.
I passed grade 7 that year.
Footnote:
Once I left St. Lambert I was able to be known once more as Bob and while I was
different as a child I am still different at 73. I turned out OK so please stop
telling your children there is something wrong with them, they will learn to
cope and they will do well.
Bob Hawkins Blog Admin
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